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6 Truths for When You Feel Overwhelmed and “Too Broken”

Anne woke up and thought through her day and sighed. “Would anyone even care if I stayed in bed all day? It’s not like I really make a difference in anyone’s life. I usually just mess things up. I say all the wrong things and do all the wrong things. I am a terrible mom. If my friends knew what I was thinking half the time, they would think I was crazy. Why can’t I […]

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When Will Past Hurt and My Broken Responses To It Stop Stealing My Joy?

Bad crap happens to us. It hurts. We chose to NOT BELIEVE God’s solutions for our hurt.  We did our best, but the outcome was loss – financial, spiritual, relational, emotional. We realized something was wrong, but had no idea how to change or make different choices. Life crashed on. Other people’s lives don’t seem to have the cracks, bumps, and bruises that we do. We find ourselves comparing and feeling like something was stolen […]

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How Do You Move from Knowing Stuff to Life-Changing Belief?

There is a challenge that often comes with using the Word of God in the healing process – the leap from knowing stuff in your head to embracing it with your heart. It is just a bunch of facts that get splattered against a wall if you do not really BELIEVE what you are applying to your wounds – past and present. So how do you know if you really BELIEVE something, and how do […]

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If You Could Tell The Younger You What You Know Now

Have you ever thought what might be different in your past if you could go back and sit down with the younger you? Not in a terrible regretful, self-pity sort of way, but in a “How could it have changed the anger or fear or brokenness you felt?,” kind of restorative, life-giving way. Our past had so many minefields. Some of what others did or said to us. Some of what we did or said […]

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Safe Community: Why It’s Important and How To Find It

Safe community. What is it? Why is it important? What difference will it make in your healing journey? Where do you find it? How do you find it? What is it and why is it important? Safe community is a place where you can speak truth and no one jumps to criticize or correct. They listen and ask questions. They let you know what they are hearing so you can actually understand what you are […]

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What IS it I offer You at Unchanging God Changing You?

I often say I want to help you walk forward with confidence in Christ, without fear. What does that look like when it is happening in YOUR life? I am working with a Christian Message Coach. She asked me a question the other day that got me thinking. She asked me what behavior changes occur when the thing the Lord has taught me is applied and assimilated into other’s lives? In other words, “What changes […]

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